I have come to the conclusion that no one really enjoys being fat, over weight obese  or any of the other noun used to describe someone of my size. However,I have also come to the conclusion that I can not be ashamed of the skin that I'm in. Often times I have struggled with the two. How can one be unhappy with their size yet say they love themselves. Its possible?  There is a saying that goes if you don't like something then fix it. So what's a girl to do. Well one immediate fix would be to head to the gym but not even that can be done without a cute outfit. I suggest shopping.I find clothing to be therapeutic in so many was from #retailtherapy to finding the perfect outfit that makes you feel like a queen.